3 Ways to Live on Mission in the Middle of Your Mess

Life rarely goes according to plan. We can have our spiritual lives in order, our finances planned, and our families thriving, and then, in an instant, a storm hits. We lose a loved one, a marriage falls apart, or a job disappears. The easy narrative of a faith-filled life feels shattered. When you are drowning in grief, betrayal, and pain, the last thing you want to hear is a call to action, especially a call to go on mission. Our natural instinct is to retreat, to curl up and nurse our wounds in isolation. But what if God’s call to mission isn’t put on hold while we suffer? What if the very arena of our pain is the most powerful platform for His light? It’s in our darkest valleys that our weakness becomes the stage for God’s incredible strength. We don’t have to wait until we’re “fixed” to share the gospel; in fact, the most compelling stories of God’s grace are told by those who are still in the middle of their mess.


1. Your Pain Is Not a Pause Button

When we face profound loss, our world shrinks. We are consumed by our own grief, and rightfully so. It’s a heavy burden to carry. We may feel spiritually bankrupt and incapable of offering anything to anyone else. It’s easy to believe that our faith is on pause while we deal with the trauma. However, this is precisely where we must cling to the truth that our pain is not a permanent state but a powerful, albeit difficult, chapter in our story. The Apostle Paul, who endured relentless suffering, taught that we are “afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed” (2 Corinthians 4:8-9). Our suffering doesn’t disqualify us from ministry; it deepens it. When we step out in faith despite our circumstances, we are a living testament to a God who sustains, even when we can’t see the path forward. Our weakness gives God space to show off His power.


2. Authenticity Is Your Greatest Tool

In a world full of polished, perfect facades, an authentic testimony of brokenness is an irresistible force. People aren’t looking for another flawless guru; they’re looking for someone who understands what it’s like to hurt and still have hope. When you’re living through trauma, you are in a unique position to share about the raw, unfiltered reality of a relationship with Jesus. You can speak from a place of fresh vulnerability, not from a distant memory of a past trial.

Consider someone who has lived their entire life with a physical challenge, like Cerebral Palsy. For them, every step, every word, can be a battle. The world sees their physical weakness. But what if that very weakness becomes the platform for an incredible testimony? When that individual speaks, their words carry the weight of a lifetime of perseverance. They can say, “I am physically weak, but through Christ, I am strong. He has carried me through every fall, every moment of frustration, and every time someone doubted my ability.” This transparency is a gateway for the gospel. It shows that Jesus isn’t a crutch for easy times, but a lifeline in the middle of a hurricane.

Highlight this quote: “We don’t have to wait until we’re ‘fixed’ to share the gospel; in fact, the most compelling stories of God’s grace are told by those who are still in the middle of their mess.”


3. Small Acts of Faith Have a Great Impact

Living on mission doesn’t always mean booking a trip to a foreign country or speaking from a stage. In the midst of suffering, it often looks much simpler. It might be a heartfelt conversation with a barista about their day. It could be a text to a friend saying you’re praying for them, even when you feel you have nothing left to give. It’s a simple act of kindness when you have no energy left. These small, seemingly insignificant acts of faith are the most powerful because they demonstrate the overflow of God’s love and strength from a place of deep pain. The mission field is right where you are, in your neighborhood, at the grocery store, and in your children’s school. God doesn’t need us to be at our best; He just needs us to be present and available. He promises to use our faith, no matter how small, to make a difference. As Jesus said, even a mustard seed of faith can move mountains. Your pain-filled life, lived on mission, is a powerful witness to a world that desperately needs to see that suffering and hope can coexist.


Your story of pain is not a sign of spiritual failure; it’s a testament to God’s enduring grace. You are called to be a light, not when you have it all together, but right now, in the middle of your mess. God promises to use our weakness for His glory. Your testimony is more powerful than any sermon. You are a missionary to the broken world around you, because you understand what it means to be broken yourself.

Take one step today. What small act of love can you offer to someone else, even while you are hurting? Maybe it’s a quick text to check in on a friend or offering to pray for a stranger. The conversation starts with you. Share in the comments below: How have you seen God use your pain to bring Him glory?


If you’re inspired to join us in our mission to equip and empower believers to live out their faith, consider becoming a monthly partner. Your gift of any amount—$5, $50, or $100 a month—or an annual gift, will help us continue to create resources and mobilize others for ministry. As a thank-you, all monthly partners will receive a complimentary copy of my book, Weak Is The New Strong, and an autographed copy of my second book, Mobilize Your Missional Life, upon its release.

Take one step today. What small act of love can you offer to someone else, even while you are hurting? Maybe it’s a quick text to check in on a friend or offering to pray for a stranger. The conversation starts with you. Share in the comments below: How have you seen God use your pain to bring Him glory?


If you’re inspired to join us in our mission to equip and empower believers to live out their faith, consider becoming a monthly partner. Your gift of any amount—$5, $50, or $100 a month—or an annual gift, will help us continue to create resources and mobilize others for ministry. As a thank-you, all monthly partners will receive a complimentary copy of my book, Weak Is The New Strong, and an autographed copy of my second book, Mobilize Your Missional Life, upon its release.

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